Not in the mood for all the residual Valentine’s Day cheerfulness? Monday’s holiday urged us to express our feelings for those in our lives, but sometimes we just need to reflect on our emotions. While upbeat and happy tunes often bring listeners joy, breakup songs tend to be emotionally engaging. “Breakup songs can provide a kind of reverse empathy as you feel for another person going through what you are experiencing. This feeling can help you recognize your own feelings,” says Paul Thagard, PhD.

Each of us celebrated Valentine’s Day differently. If you’re still in a melancholy mood, check out some (or all) of these anthems below. As Ethan noted in this week’s Cat in the Stax, “Crying is a uniquely human experience. Tears are what separate us from the rest of the animal kingdom, which makes crying all the more necessary. A good cry can help us learn things about ourselves that we never could have known otherwise.”

Don’t hit the repeat button on these ballads of the brokenhearted too frequently—save them for when you need to shed a few tears.

1. “What Becomes of the Brokenhearted” by Jimmy Ruffin
2. “If I Could Write” by Sam Phillips
3. “I Forgot to Be Your Lover” by William Bell
4. “Someone Like You” by Adele
5. “Let It Go” by James Bay
6. “It’s Too Late” by Carole King
7. “Tuesday Heartbreak” by Stevie Wonder
8. “White Flag” by Dido
9. “I’d Rather Go Blind” by Etta James
10. “Unbreak My Heart” by Toni Braxton
11. “I Will Always Love You” by Dolly Parton
12. “Back to December” by Taylor Swift
13. “You Haven’t Seen the Last of Me” by Cher
14. “I Heard It Through The Grapevine” by Marvin Gaye
15. “When The Party’s Over” by Billie Eilish
16. “Purple Rain” by Prince
17. “Ain’t No Sunshine” by Bill Withers
18. “Don’t Know What You Got (Till It’s Gone)” by Cinderella
19. “How Can You Mend a Broken Heart” by Al Green
20. “With or Without You” by U2
21. “Wrecking Ball” by Miley Cyrus
22. “The Dumbing Down of Love” by Frou Frou
23. “Dancing with a Stranger” by Sam Smith and Normani
24. “The Winner Takes it All” by ABBA
25. “The Man That Got Away” by Judy Garland
26. “Misunderstanding” by Genesis

References: Why Do People Like Breakup Songs? | Psychology Today. (n.d.). Retrieved February 11, 2022, from https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/hot-thought/202009/why-do-people-breakup-songs

Kallie Stahl ’17 MA is Communication and Marketing Specialist at Falvey Memorial Library.

Happy Holidays, Wildcats! Enjoy this new mashed potato mashup playlist while studying for finals, traveling home, or just for some relaxing backgrounds tunes. These calm tracks are perfect for any gathering. Looking for more music? Check out the original mashup here.

• 1) “Where’s My Love” by SYML
• 2) “Oh My Stars” by Andrew Belle
• 3) “The Bones” by Maren Morris & Hozier
• 4) “I Will Not Take My Love Away” by Matt Wertz
• 5) “Gravity” by Sara Bareilles
• 6) “Nothing Can Change This Love” by Sam Cooke
• 7) “Rearview” by Andra Day
• 8) “Coming Home” by Leon Bridges
• 9) “Willow” by Taylor Swift
• 10) “Buckets of Rain” by Bob Dylan
• 11) “Seven Hours” by Lucy Schwartz & Aqualung
• 12) “Tip of My Tongue” by Kenny Chesney
• 13) “Love Is Everywhere I Go” by Sam Phillips
• 14) “Present Tense” by Pearl Jam
• 15) “Rhiannon” by Fleetwood Mac
• 16) “Promise” by Ben Howard
• 17) “Lost Stars” by Adam Levine
• 18) “All Is Well” by Austin Basham
• 19) “Here You Come Again” by Dolly Parton & Willa Amai
• 20) “She’s Got A Way” by Billy Joel

Bonus playlist: Kallie’s Chords—Merry Everything. Play the holiday hits here.

• 1) “Run Rudolph Run” by Chuck Berry
• 2) “Good King Wenceslas” by Jane Lynch, Kate Flannery, Tim Davis & The Tony Guerrero Quintet
• 3) “O Christmas Tree” by Tony Bennett
• 4) “Merry Christmas Darling” by The Carpenters
• 5) “Winter Wonderland” by Kenny G
• 6) “Hallelujah” by Pentatonix
• 7) “Winter Song” by Sara Bareilles & Ingrid Michaelson
• 8) “Do You Hear What I Hear?” by Home Free
• 9) “Peace on Earth/The Little Drummer Boy” by Bing Crosby & Davie Bowie
• 10) “Snow” by Leslie Odom Jr.
• 11) “The Great Pumpkin Waltz” by Vince Guaraldi
• 12) “Lights On” Tyler, the Creator feat. Ryan Beatty & Santigold
• 13) “Jingle Bells” by Frank Sinatra
• 14) “Glow” by Kelly Clarkson & Chris Stapleton
• 15) “O Come O Come Emmanuel” by The Civil Wars
• 16) “Frosty the Snowman” by Fiona Apple
• 17) “Last Christmas” by She & Him
• 18) “We Three Kings” by Ella Fitzgerald
• 19) “Little Saint Nick” by Surfaces
• 20) “Joy to the World” by Whitney Houston & The Georgia Mass Choir

Kallie Stahl ’17 MA is Communication and Marketing Specialist at Falvey Memorial Library.